We talk with Dawn Wesolek, Business and Career Coach, Rewilding Guide, and student of the Three Principles, about how her relationship to problems in her life has completely transformed. Dawn now sees how when she doesn't get caught up in her analytical machinery the issues in her life naturally resolve. She sees them as opportunities for learning and growth rather than as problems in the first place.
Since seeing her relationship with her own wisdom as her primary relationship, all the other important relationships in her life have improved. For example, she used to think her child needed to be different, or she needed to find her a Dad. But since letting her mind quiet, and deepening her understanding of where her experience comes from, she realized her daughter simply wanted her to be present with her and listen to her. This alone has transformed their relationship.
Dawn also presents a beautiful example of being guided by wisdom to leave a relationship. She saw how by living in her true nature, the decision of whether to stay or go was made for her, through her, and it couldn't have been clearer.
This episode explores:
- Relating to our problems differently
- Seeing the opportunity in hardship
- Understanding deeply that we are enough
- Presence is the greatest gift we can give
Show Notes
The Joys of Spring: how Angus experiences Dawn
The Principles Don’t Solve Problems: They Make Them Disappear: Rohini's controversial blog post from 2019
Soufflé of life: Dawn's metaphor about how respecting divine timing can eliminate the illusion of a problem
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Listener shout out!
Loved it, it feels a bit like a cliffhanger too! Really enjoyed the snippets of story and then the commentary and chat between you...oh and I also REALLY love the music too! ~Sarah
Thank you, Sarah! We're so glad you're listening and enjoying :)
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Angus & Rohini Ross are “The Rewilders.” Listen to their podcast Rewilding Love. They believe too many good relationships fall apart because couples give up thinking their relationship problems can’t be solved. Many couples don’t know how to navigate low moods, conflict, and emotional reactivity. In this season of the Rewilding Love Podcast, Rohini and Angus help a couple on the brink of divorce due to conflict. Angus and Rohini love working with couples and helping them to reduce conflict and discord in their relationships by pointing them to their innate wisdom and wellbeing. They work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy they already have. They co-facilitate a private couples' intensives retreat program that rewilds relationships back to their natural state of love.
Rohini is the author of the ebook Marriage, and they are co-founders of The 29-Day Rewilding Experience and The Rewilding Community. You can also follow Angus and Rohini Ross on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. To learn more about their work visit: TheRewilders.org. Check out Rohini's latest blog.